“A family is a unit composed not only of children but of men, women, an occasional animal, and the common cold.” ( Ogden Nash). But what about when there are two mothers and there is no father, or two fathers and no mother? Is it correct? Is it dangerous for a child’s health? There are some reasons to say that adoption of children by homosexual couples is not a correct action.
According to social science evidences the best environment for the well-being children is a household with both, mother and father. So why not give kids the best possible chance to have a normal and healthy family life instead of using a new cultural statement. In addition they need to realize about their mother and father and the relationship between them and the love that they can give to the children. Moreover children of a normal family know what their role inside the society is.
Having homosexual couples as parents is more likely that children get involved in an homosexual behavior. In a study published by the Development Psychology of London (1996) they found that children who raise in an homosexual environment are much likely to experiment with homosexual behavior themselves.
On the other hand, some researchers have found that lesbians and gay men are not unfit to be parents, but according to Bozzett (1991) stability is the key to raise a child with an emotional and mentally health (missing a noun here) because unmarried and homosexual partners cannot provide the stability that married heterosexual couples can give, since the fact of being an homosexual person demonstrates that they do not accept who they are and what they really want for their lives.
As a conclusion, the American Psychological Association says that “the push for homosexual couples to jointly adopt children is actually a back-door strategy to gain rights and benefits of homosexual “marriage”. So it is important that children be protected of this kind of actions because it is difficult for a child to understand what happens with homosexual people and they just tend to imitate what they see, and it will be a chain. I think people should fight for the respect to their families and implement values to avoid this kind of situations.
jueves, 21 de octubre de 2010
martes, 19 de octubre de 2010
Adoption of children by homosexual couples
“A family is a unit composed not only of children but of men, women, an occasional animal, and the common cold.” ( Ogden Nash). But what about when there are just two mothers and there is no father, or two fathers and no mother? Is it correct? Is it dangerous for a child health? There are some reasons to say that adoption of children by homosexual couples is not a correct action.
According to social science evidences the best environment for the well-being children is a household with both, mother r and father. So why not give kids the best possible chance to have a normal and healthy family life instead of use a new cultural statement. In addition they need to realize about their mother and father, in addition the relationship between them and the love that they can give to the children. Moreover children who raise in a normal family tempt to know what their role inside the society is.
Having an homosexual couples as parents is more likely that children get involved in an homosexual behavior. In a study published by the development psychology of London (1996) they found that children who raise in an homosexual environment are much likely to experiment with homosexual behavior themselves.
On the other hand, some researchers have found that lesbians and gay men are not unfit to be parents, but according to Bozzett (1991) stability is the key to make a child raises in an emotional and mentally health because unmarried and homosexual partners cannot provide the stability that married heterosexual couples can give.
As a conclusion, the American Psychological Association says that “the push for homosexual couples to jointly adopt children is actually a back-door strategy to gain rights and benefits of homosexual “marriage”. So it is important that children be protected of this kind of actions because it is difficult for a child to understand what happens with homosexual people and they just tempt to act as the same way that they see, and it will be a chain. I think people should fight for the respect to their families and implement values to avoid this kind of situations.
According to social science evidences the best environment for the well-being children is a household with both, mother r and father. So why not give kids the best possible chance to have a normal and healthy family life instead of use a new cultural statement. In addition they need to realize about their mother and father, in addition the relationship between them and the love that they can give to the children. Moreover children who raise in a normal family tempt to know what their role inside the society is.
Having an homosexual couples as parents is more likely that children get involved in an homosexual behavior. In a study published by the development psychology of London (1996) they found that children who raise in an homosexual environment are much likely to experiment with homosexual behavior themselves.
On the other hand, some researchers have found that lesbians and gay men are not unfit to be parents, but according to Bozzett (1991) stability is the key to make a child raises in an emotional and mentally health because unmarried and homosexual partners cannot provide the stability that married heterosexual couples can give.
As a conclusion, the American Psychological Association says that “the push for homosexual couples to jointly adopt children is actually a back-door strategy to gain rights and benefits of homosexual “marriage”. So it is important that children be protected of this kind of actions because it is difficult for a child to understand what happens with homosexual people and they just tempt to act as the same way that they see, and it will be a chain. I think people should fight for the respect to their families and implement values to avoid this kind of situations.
lunes, 11 de octubre de 2010
My baby Zoé
Do you have a treasure? Do you love someone a lot?, if your answer is yes, now I have to ask why?. Well, I am going to tell you that I have someone who I love so much, she is my daughter who is also my treasure, but she has characteristics that make her be unique and special for me.
The first one is her physical appearance. She is beautiful, she has short-black-hair, big-brown-eyes, she is a little bit fat, she has a flat nose, she is chubby-cheeked, she has a very small mouth, and she is white. Most of these characteristics are similar to the characteristics of her father. Such as the hair, eyes, the nose, even the gestures of her face, since she makes a lot of gestures that her dad makes; in other words, she is very similar to him, but she is beautiful any way.
The way that she behaves make her be special, since she is very lovely with me; she likes to play with me and also to sleep next to me, because she always tries to sleep getting my blouse, my hair or my hand. When she is with my parents, she started laughing, and she shouts of happiness. Even though she looks like a quite girl, she is also a quick-tempered baby, because she becomes angry when all of us are busy and no one is paying attention to her. Moreover, she starts crying when she feels alone and when she gets desperate. In addition, when she feels angry, she starts making strange sounds.
Her movements and mischieves are other beautiful characteristic, since she is discovering, and learning many things. Usually everything is clean or does not. Moreover, when she listens to any kind of sound or music, she starts dancing and she gave us a beautiful smile. When I am sleeping and she is next to me she hits my ace until I wake up, and when I open my eyes, she smiles. In addition, she loves to eat cookies, so when I am eating cookies she snatches the cookie. Also when she wants to reach something she tries to go where that thing is and when she cannot do it, she starts to make a rage. Finally, she loves to be held, she hates the cradle.
Because all of these reasons are why I love my daughter, she is special and she also makes me feel that I am special. She is my treasure. The most precious that someone would like to have. All of these things you can experiment with these special angels, and I hope you as me have a treasure or someone who loves at home.
The first one is her physical appearance. She is beautiful, she has short-black-hair, big-brown-eyes, she is a little bit fat, she has a flat nose, she is chubby-cheeked, she has a very small mouth, and she is white. Most of these characteristics are similar to the characteristics of her father. Such as the hair, eyes, the nose, even the gestures of her face, since she makes a lot of gestures that her dad makes; in other words, she is very similar to him, but she is beautiful any way.
The way that she behaves make her be special, since she is very lovely with me; she likes to play with me and also to sleep next to me, because she always tries to sleep getting my blouse, my hair or my hand. When she is with my parents, she started laughing, and she shouts of happiness. Even though she looks like a quite girl, she is also a quick-tempered baby, because she becomes angry when all of us are busy and no one is paying attention to her. Moreover, she starts crying when she feels alone and when she gets desperate. In addition, when she feels angry, she starts making strange sounds.
Her movements and mischieves are other beautiful characteristic, since she is discovering, and learning many things. Usually everything is clean or does not. Moreover, when she listens to any kind of sound or music, she starts dancing and she gave us a beautiful smile. When I am sleeping and she is next to me she hits my ace until I wake up, and when I open my eyes, she smiles. In addition, she loves to eat cookies, so when I am eating cookies she snatches the cookie. Also when she wants to reach something she tries to go where that thing is and when she cannot do it, she starts to make a rage. Finally, she loves to be held, she hates the cradle.
Because all of these reasons are why I love my daughter, she is special and she also makes me feel that I am special. She is my treasure. The most precious that someone would like to have. All of these things you can experiment with these special angels, and I hope you as me have a treasure or someone who loves at home.
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